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And don't invalidate my experiences as a fat woman.There are some places, some days, when I just don't want to interact with certain people or try to make my body fit into the world. Let’s be honest: while I enjoy penises, I don't necessarily want unexpected visual boners intruding on my day.

Check your own issues with fatness before telling me to check mine.

I don't know what the motivation is for guys who try to get me on their shoulders at concerts or attempt to lift me gently into bed.

I have experienced sexual assault and trauma in my life.

A lot of fat women have -- the ACE scores study suggest that at least some cases of obesity are biologically related to childhood trauma -- but I don't need you to psychoanalyze me, to explain to me why I'm fat, or to try and "fix" me somehow. I got over guys who wanted to sleep with me but weren't willing to be seen in public with me a long time ago.

And unsurprisingly, I get more unsolicited dick pics than you could ever imagine.

I wondered, "What would guys do if I turned the tables and sent them an unexpected vagina pic?

I swiped right on every man that popped up and matched with about 100. Of the 37 guys who communicated with me about my v-pic, every one of them wanted to meet me, regardless of age or location.

I sent out a blanket, "Hello handsome," note since women need to make the first move on Bumble. For the three guys that responded quickly, I flirted aggressively and hit them with the v-pic after four to five messages. Most blew up my phone with descriptions of what they'd do to my body, specifically to the fake vagina I found on the Interwebs.

I love Netflix and whatever as much as the next girl, sure -- but I also love art galleries and movie theaters and poetry readings!

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